Why don’t you have what you want?

There are quite a few people I know right now who’re frustrated as all get out because life is NOT how they want it, myself included. There are SO many things I want to do and people I want to help and places I want to visit.

Some say that life falls apart before it falls back together. If this is you, hang in there because it IS shifting.

We just had a major month of energy shifting with Mercury Retrograde and we have THREE Super Moons coming up soon, too.

Things are stirring so you can ditch what doesn’t serve you and get a handle on what TRULY does.

I wrote this email to my list today and I felt like it needed to be shared here, too. So, here it is, slightly altered, with spelling mistakes fixed! Lol. Enjoy.

I believe that everything you want is available to you. Right now. You don’t have it all yet NOT because it isn’t possible but for two reasons:

1) A piece of you doesn’t believe YOU can have it, even if you know other people who can and do.

There’s an aspect of unworthiness, un-deserving-ness or a piece of ‘it’s not meant for me’ keeping it separate from you.

Does this feel true? Sometimes things are held in our subconscious so the conscious mind will disagree.

Your conscious mind thinks it’s preposterous while your subconscious mind stands behind you with a hand in the air.

I want you to tell yourself that the old beliefs are a load of crap and you can have whatever you want!

Do you believe if you were worth it, you’d have it already?
Do you believe you can have it once you do something, give something or learn something? But not right now?

Many of us were programmed at a young age by the people who raised us, including our extended families and teachers, and even those who bullied us.

We took those old situations and experiences and made them our truths. Good and bad.

We made what other people said and did and how THEY acted, OUR truths. That’s kind of crappy, isn’t it.
Why couldn’t we just make up our own? Because we didn’t think we were allowed!

That leads me to the second reason…

2) You don’t have all you want because you have a ton of layers, or maybe one or two, preventing it.

You need to become the energy of what it is you want. Everything you want ALREADY exits because it ALL starts with energy, which is what you are at your core. You are energy.

That means you don’t have all you want because there’s some resistance around it, or a disconnect with your energy.

Maybe it will be a lot of work.
Or people will view you differently.
Or you will feel disconnected from others if you have what you truly want.

What if you don’t have what you want because you’re filtering the world in a way that currently won’t allow it?

Have you heard me use the umbrella example before?
Say you’re outside in the sun, wondering why the sun isn’t shining on you, and you realize you’re standing under an umbrella that’s sheltering you from the light.

YOU are separating yourself from the things you want. They are not separate from you, you are making them, in some way, separate.

So to get what you want, you need to re-focus your mind onto what you want rather than standing around underneath that darned umbrella. You need to remove or shift the things preventing you from getting what you want.

What are those things you want? Better health? More freedom? More money? More vacation time? More time with your friends or family, or more time to relax?

And more importantly, what’s the resistance preventing it all?

We all want things. It’s normal and healthy to want.

But feeling ‘I want’ is going to keep it separate from you because it’s in the future. I want means it’s not here yet.

If you keep coming up with excuses why you can’t have it right this minute like:
*It’s not my time
*I can’t afford it
*I don’t know how
*It hasn’t happened yet so maybe it won’t 

Or what about:
*I don’t want to work that hard

*People won’t like me

*I won’t like who I become.

Or worse yet, if you did have all you want, but you were just planning to give it all away.

Why would you give away what you worked so hard for and got aligned to receive? If you win the lottery, how much would you keep and how much would you share? 

Why would the Universe bring it to you? Why wouldn’t the Universe just bring those things to others and leave out the middle man?

Whoa. Gotcha there, didn’t I. I want to share everything with everyone too, but if I do, what will be left for me?

If I’m worthy of it, then I must keep it, love it and experience it. Do you agree? Okay, maybe not all of it, but I think you get my point.

So HOW do you refocus and tap into YOUR worthiness (not what you want for other people) and truly get into alignment with what you want? Please be selfish here. See others as having the ability to get what they want, so all you need to do is focus on YOU.

Is that weird? Does it feel different? Scary? I bet! Focusing only on us feels really odd! Doing things we don’t normally do ALWAYS feels foreign. It’s called GROWTH!

First, stop focusing on what IS and stop making excuses for why you are where you are. You just are. And that’s okay.

Where you are in life right now is based on who you were, so who you are NOW is creating your future. If you change you NOW, you change your future.

Think only about what you DO want and start acting as though you’re already that person, the person who already has all of those things.

Yep, I know. That feels hard because you’re so used to being who you are, and you’re so COMFORTABLE being you. But if you want more, you need to learn to love being uncomfortable. See uncomfortable-ness as a good thing because you KNOW change is coming.

The energy is important, your head and heart need to be in alignment, but you must then take some actions from that place. Not any old actions or a bunch of things you’re already doing, but NEW things. Higher vibrating actions.

I don’t meant just meditation and visualization, but every day things, too. Change how you cook, or where you park your car. Change actual tangible things.

Also, speak of everything you want in the present.

Ditch ‘I want’ and ‘I desire’ and go right to ‘I am’ and ‘I have’. Keep it in the present. Your mind will make it real because it thinks it already IS.

I love to connect with others for help so if this stuff kind of baffles you, getting help is certainly something I recommend.

Find someone you resonate with. If that’s me, I’d love to help you!

***For the next week, my 60- and 90-minute sessions are on sale, so if this message calls to you, please book one or more here: http://YLTcoaching.com

The other thing I love to use to get focused is listening to Abraham Hicks on YouTube, and meditating.

I use ALL kinds of meditation. Sometimes I say I AM statements, sometimes I chant, or I walk and do some tapping on my fingers. Sometimes I listen to guided meditations and other times, I just get quiet.

The 30 Days of Meditation is meant to get you familiar with different kinds of meditation so you know what resonates with you. Hmm, maybe we’ll do some tapping, too!

I work with the Council of Light, so you will learn about some of their Rays of Light and use meditation and visualization to call them in. Powerful stuff.

If you would love to join me for 30 Days of Meditation, you can sign up for that here:http://YLTcoaching.com
**We’ll be connecting for meditation daily in a Private Facebook group to get you into the habit of getting quiet and listening to your own wisdom.

Your internal world ALWAYS creates your external world and experiences. It’s law.

If this message triggered some things within you that you desire to share, message me and let me know. I’m all ears.

I love that you’re here and you’re learning to create the life you desire.

Namaste. You’ve got this.

Sherri. :O)

For more information about Sessions and the 30 Days of Meditation, go here: http://YLTcoaching.com

Your Spirit Guides

You have a TEAM of helpers who are assigned just to you. Your Spirit Guides have chosen to work with YOU and help you during this incarnation.

You have the ability right now to connect with your Guides daily.

A gorgeous view of how Earth sees space and the light out there.

Your Spirit Guides are Souls who have been to Earth and reincarnated here in their past. Usually. They are Souls who have done their own Spiritual Development, and they have chosen to sign on to help you with your Development.

They are available to provide you with information and guidance. But, you must be calm and relaxed or aware enough to See/Feel/Hear/Know the guidance.

Think of your Guides as loving Beings who have a unique higher perspective around your life and your path and purpose.

Your Inner Circle of Guides are solely assigned to you. Your Outer Circle of Guides have more than one human they are helping.

Your Inner Circle of Guides are here to help you along your human journey in this life. You normally have 4-6 of them, but you could have more. I have 7.

Your Guides are here to help you with your own unique Self Expression. They are helping you live your authentic life. They are there to serve you, while they serve their own divine needs as Guides.

Your Inner Circle of Guides is with you ALL the time. They are your ‘hired’ spiritual help. I recommend that you learn who they are and begin to speak to them.

Your Guides hear your desires and intentions and help you replicate that energy out to the Universe to bring it back to you.

Your Higher Self is the Being who actually hired your Spirit Guide team in this incarnation. You don’t want to micro manage this group, or give them jobs. They know what they need to do. They take your Highest Good into account.

A Beautiful tree reflected into a body of water in front of a night's sky.

Your Spirit Team actually evolves as you do. When you raise your vibration (spiritually or energetically speaking, if you’re reading this, you are likely vibrating above 5.0), you can actually surpass the vibration or your Guides. In this case, one or more of your Guides are released and higher vibrating Guides are called in.

This happened to me. I lost a lower vibrating Guide when I was in Andorra last year and called in Mother Mary to fill that place.

You are here to create YOUR OWN reality. Your Guides are helping you do that.

Your initial or primary guide has been with you since Birth and will be at your side until you leave this life.

Your next Guide often comes in between ages 4 and 6. Your third Guide enters your Team around age 8 to 10. Your fourth Guide comes in around age 13 to 15 and you can call in a fifth around age 18 to 20, if they are needed.

As your intellectual and spiritual self grows, you have more choices and options, so you call in Guides to help you with those choices.Your Spirit Team is usually complete by the time you reach 25.

Sometimes we call in Temporary Guides that are meant to help us overcome some trauma or challenge. These are referred to as Negative Guides as the situation they are supporting us with is not easy, light or fun.

**When I come across these Negative Guides in an Akashic Record Reading, I clear them as after the even or situation is complete, they are no longer needed. Read more about Soul Realignment Sessions here: http://YLTcoaching.com

You also call in Special Assignment Guides when you need help with a big goal, like writing a Book, overcoming an illness or starting or expanding a Business. Your Higher Self ‘hires’ them to help.

Your Guides are not around to tell you about other people. They are there for you. They are not around to tell you what to do, as that would take away your Free Will. They are there for Guidance.

You are solely responsible for your own choices and actions.

It’s important for you to be CLEAR about your intentions and desires, as your Guides help you with them. They do not judge, and so they act on your energy. If your energy or intentions are negative or dis-empowering, they simply follow that energy, as long is it will not harm you or others, because it is your will.

Your Guidance is received based on what you DO want, rather than what you don’t. It’s really important to clearly focus on what you desire. If you have a long list of things you don’t want, use the Clarity Through Contrast Process to get clear on what you DO want. You can watch this video on YouTube to understand the process, and use this DOCUMENT to create your own Clarity Through Contrast List.

If you’re interested in learning WHO your Spirit Team is, and how to connect with them, join the Spiritual Connections 90-Day Program. Read more here: http://YLTcoaching.com

Your Outer Circle of Guides are quite a bit different. They have specific Roles they play. They are ‘hired’ by more than 1 Soul and are BUSY.

You have one of each of the following:

  1. Your Chief Guide: who coordinates the entire Inner and Outer Circle of Guides.
  2. Your Gatekeeper: who opens wisdom up to you based on specific timing.
  3. Your Timing Guide: who works together with Your Gatekeeper to line up synchronicites.
  4. Your Karmic Technician: who helps you resolve issues and unfinished business from this life and past lives. This Technician may have connected you to me for a Past Life Regression Session, or a Life Situation Reading in the Akashic Records so that you could learn what was blocking you and help you release things in the future.
  5. Your Creative Guide: who helps you leverage your own talents and skills and leads you to people and opportunities where you are meant to Create.
  6. Your Guardian: who is essentially your body guard. You don’t want to interfere with them, they are keeping you safe and alive.
  7. Your Astral Guide: who is your travel companion while you are traveling through different astrals in your sleep or deep meditation time.

**This information is from the Soul Realignment Training I took with Andrea Hess. It is powerful work.

When I work with you to help you connect with your Guides (or you can ask on your own if you have the tools to do so) I ask:

  1. Do you resonate as Male, Female or Androgynous?
  2. Where are you from? Where did your Soul originate?
  3. What is your Primary Energy Centre? (This is important information for you to understand about yourself and your Guides.)
  4. Do you have a name?
  5. What is your appearance?
  6. What role are you playing within the Inner Circle? How are you helping?
  7. How do I know (or does my client know) that you are present? Is there an impulse, a song, a feeling, a memory or something else that indicates your presence?
  8. Do you have any specific messages or wisdom to share?

Your Outer Circle is so busy doing their jobs that it makes FAR more sense to connect with your Inner Circle, though wisdom from your Creative Guide can be beneficial.

If you’re interested in learning more about your Spirit Guides, you can connect with me for a Soul Realignment session (over about one month) or join us for the 90-Day Spiritual Connection program. Learn more here: http://YLTcoaching.com

May you connect with your Guides daily and receive all the support you need.


Sherri. :O)